Christian leaders ignore the real reasons why good men decline to marry

Before we start, here are two articles explaining why men are supposedly not marrying. First one from a pastor. Second one from a sociologist. And this is, I think, the majority view: men are to blame for the decline of marriage, because men are stupid, weak, lazy and lacking ambition. Feminist women are great. Marriage laws are fair. Family courts are impartial. But is that all true?Now, if you ask an actual man whether these are his reasons for not marrying, he will have a different list:women