Debra Fileta: 5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me When I Got Married

Now that my husband and I have been married for more than a decade, we can both admit: There’s a lot about marriage that nobody ever really tells you.We went into it with wide eyes and big dreams, but the reality of day-to-day life — the constant negotiation of space, habits and emotions — was something we had to figure out on the fly.Thankfully, we had a few wise mentors who offered us unfiltered advice when we needed it most. And now, as a professional counselor who spends a lot of time helpin